Okay, I just had to vent! You don't have to read this if you don't want to. But, the older I get the more crazed I become at the irresponsibility of businesses and doctors. But, just so you can see something creative, I'll show you my second Cotton Club row almost put together. I've been working on it today to calm myself down from all the stress of yesterday. But see the block second from the bottom - well, it's set going the wrong way. Am I changing it? NOPE! And just pretend I didn't say anything, okay?
So here goes the rant. See this dress - beautiful dress right (it's really beautiful on)? Well, getting this dress was an exhausting exercise. This is DD's Homecoming dress. Homecoming is two days away. Why are we getting a Homecoming Dress three days before the event? Well, this dress wasn't her first choice. And here's the story.
About a month or so ago DD borrowed another dress from a friend. She didn't want a new dress, she wanted to wear her friend's dress. It looked darling on her and I'm thinking I don't have to buy a dress - score!!. So I took it to the cleaners. It was due back Friday. I go in Friday and dress is not ready - hasn't been touched in all the time it's been sitting there. They say that it has to be spot cleaned. Please pick up Tuesday. Okay, but why wasn't I called about this? And why haven't you started on the dress??? No answers. Just some mumbling. I tell them that I have to have the dress on Tuesday. If there is a problem please call me.
So yesterday I pull my body out of bed (I've been fighting some kind of stomach virus thing and just wanted to sleep in yesterday) and I run to do a couple errands - produce market for reinforcements for the troops and lunchmeat for DD because she hates school lunches. I'm on a tight schedule that morning and my foot is tapping because I swear they could have sliced up a cow in the time it took to give me three packets of lunchmeat. I run and collect other things, but I think that the senior citizen bus had their weekly drop off and I'm dodging people all over the place - it takes me forever . Okay, I do the yoga calming breaths and just keep going! The scanner acts up in the check-out line - more deep breaths! I leave there - stop and fill up my gas tank (where I have to wait in line some more and take more breaths), and then drive to the dry cleaners only to be told that the dress can't be cleaned or even spot cleaned. Okay, now I'm having trouble doing those cleansing breaths. I'm starting to hyperventilate!! WE'RE FOUR DAYS BEFORE HOMECOMING PEOPLE!!! AND MAY I ASK WHY YOU DIDN'T CALL ME ABOUT THIS??? WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME THAT LAST WEEK??? IS YOUR PHONE BROKEN??? (yes, I actually said that). I feel some kind of rage within me. Mr. Dry Cleaner says he'll try washing it if I sign off on it. I sign off, telling him I MUST have the dress like yesterday!! He tells me to call at 4:00 and I'm back in the car (with thoughts of driving through his storefront), fly into the house and am tossing lunchmeat and produce in all directions in the refrigerator because I have to pick up DD for her foot doctor appointment like five minutes ago.
DD and I drive to the doctors and I tell her about the dress. She starts freaking out. And I'm freaking out watching her freak out! This is her first real date - I want it to be perfect. We get to the doctors where we promptly wait ONE AND ONE HALF HOURS!!! We're both sitting there freaking out about the dress, mad at the doctor for taking so long and she's starving. We decide she won't go back to school (for which she was happy) and we would get something to eat and try to calm ourselves down. After waiting for ONE AND A HALF HOURS, I walk to the door, fling it open, take a step out and am ready to confront the first person that walks by the door with my teeth bared and an arthritic joint model in my hand (not really) only to just about knock the doctor to the floor. Neither one of are pleased at this event. There are no apologies on his part and I'm about ready to pick up one of those joint models and sock him with it (I must mention that I did pick it up a couple times and swung it around just to test the heft and weight while waiting for him in case I snapped and used it on someone).
Dr. Slower-than-Molasses shows us the MRI and it definitely indicates that DD has broken her foot. Prognosis - 4 more weeks in the boot and crutches. Her face falls because now she has to sport a boot for Homecoming. Her assistant at school who carried her books had thrown her a "BOOT the BOOT" party for heaven's sake. Tears form in her eyes. We leave there both upset and are still freaking out about the dress. And she's starving and I have a flipping headache.
We drive to a fast food place (no endorsements here because I HATE fast food) and the food calms her down. The Mountain Dew she drinks sparks her back up and she's freaking about the dress again. So, we drive to the nearest mall because, you know, if we don't find something, that darned friend's dress is going to disintegrate at the dry cleaners (law of averages, right?). Now the closest mall - well, it's about a mile long if you go the whole circuit - which we do - because we can't find anything. She's worn out - a mile on crutches is not a good thing, and my headache is about at maximum velocity. Did I mention that this dress had to be either black, white or a combination of the two? Because the other dress was black and white? We found a lot of wonderful things in other colors, but her date had already ordered her corsage - they were going to be color coordinated - they had ideas as to how they wanted to look - so only black and white would do. OY!
DD is disappointed and hesitantly asked if we can go to another store. I basically want to lay in the parking lot and let someone run over me before I drive to another store - preferably one of the shuttle buses - but I tell her okay as we really have no other choice, so we get in the car and start driving across town. While on the way her friend that owns the original dress calls and while talking to Catie tells us that the store that we're driving to is closed. OMG, OMG!!! But there is one down Hall Road. Well, Hall Road is like taking your life in your hands during rush hour. But what are you going to do?
So we brave the traffic, get to the store, look all over and can't find anything. But wait - mom is digging into this ridicuously stuffed rack of dresses and I find one. DD screws up her nose. I say PLEASE, TRY IT ON, PLEASE. (please try this dress on before I start overturning racks in here and completely embarrass you and get myself arrested for going on some kind of crazed rage). She does, and she opens the dressing room door and there is a big smile on her face - brighter than the beads on the dress. She loves it. And I'm almost on my knees thanking the Gods above. She looks so pretty. We actually get 20% off the dress because I'm cranky, really cranky at this point because 1) no, they won't hold the dress and 2) no, the dress is not returnable! I'm about ready to go for the poor clerk's throat. Do we leave and hope Dress #1 made it through the cleaning process and if not, Dress #2 will be there tomorrow? No, I'm not taking that chance, so I point out two beads that are loose - one hanging by a thread (which I can easily fix but you don't tell them that), they give me the discount and then we're out the door.
I'm both breathing a sigh of relief and girding my loins for the harrowing trip back home. For the past six hours we've been on the go - we're tired and worn out. But wait - then DD reminds me that it's Spirit Week all week at school and tomorrow is Yellow day and we have to go to Joanne's for yellow things and we need Bedazzle stuff to spiff up her boot and......well, you get the picture. Joanne's was basically in the same parking lot so I said yes. She gets her things and while standing in the check out line I think that the whole ordeal caught up with us because she spotted a pair of those wax fangs in the checkout line at Joanne's and started laughing - laughing so hard that tears were coming to her eyes. I asked her what was so funny, and when she could finally calm down she said that she wished that I had a pair of those at the doctors office. She said that she had a vision of me baring those things when I opened the door and almost knocked the doctor over. Well, we ended up laughing so much over that people were looking at us quite strangely, but it certainly relieved the stress and made the whole day kind of laughable.
I collapse in a chair later and wondered why I ever signed up for this mom thing. While DD and DH are eating leftovers (I cooked way too much food the day before, thank goodness) and I'm eating a plain omelet and dry toast to make up for the bazillion calories I ingested with that fast food lunch, my headache finally eases, but I'm still kind of crazed over the doctor visit and the stupid dry cleaners not making a simple phone call. But then after dinner DD puts the dress on to model it and everything is okay. She looks beautiful, she's happy, and the boot doesn't look bad after all - kind of a cute fashion statement. And I realize then why I signed up for the mom gig! Seeing her smiling face in that black dress was worth every exhausting minute. So I'm calm now.
But we see the doctor in a few weeks - I don't forget easily! LOL And of course, as luck would have it, we picked up Dress #1 the dress from the dry cleaners a short time ago and it came out perfect:
Now she doesn't know which one to wear. I vote for the black and white, but both are cute on her.
So rant over. We'll return to our regularly scheduled programming in a couple days. I know that this isn't my normal post, but I thought that it would be fun to record this on my blog and look back on this time at some point- a big time in my daughter's life - and smile again about the whole thing. A big thank you if you made it this far! I'll post pictures of her all dressed up and made up next week. I'll also have some more stitching and quilting things too. But I just had to rant!!!